It won't hurt to kiss her ear and/or side of her neck as well. This'll intrigue him; allow him wonder a little bit too. And if someone asks you if they can give the girl the note--and you feel comfortable with that--let them do it. Make your intentions known. Eventually they may feel the same way and if they don't, again just move on. Or being kind and friendly to others? Take it easy. In time, the respect will come Adult Finder to you. Have a mature, calm conversation with your spouse/partner. Be who you are. See his reaction to you being around him. It's up to you what might work best but some ideas include going for a ride on a cycle or scooter; taking a tour of the city; sliding; visiting a local park; chasing waves at the beach; or maybe even taking a jump together if you're game. Crystal: Make a crystal photo frame of yours and her. Its fun once in a while to do things that are really stupid. Take note of your partner's sensitivity and emotions. Who says you have to wait, batting your eyelashes and hoping that handsome guy will introduce himself?