How to Get a Guy if His Girlfriend Lives in Another Country. A relationship is not the most easiest of things, it will require patience and a lot of understanding. Your girlfriend will be super excited by seeing it at first and then will think that her boy friend thinks that she is small girl (immature) who still likes teddy bear. Underwater basket weaving will do just fine. The next shot should be an activity shot, maybe of you on vacation or doing an activity that you enjoy, to show off more of your personality. It's not really important. Let them know that's Sex Dating all you're doing. I had the same problem with my boyfriend. For an example you might say, I loved when you took me out to dinner. Be careful, don't make the gifts too great - they'll just keep wanting more and more! Be a little mysterious. Watch some stand-up shows to get a feel of timing. Bad boys usually like to listen to aggressive music so find out where the best hip hop, rock or punk nightspots are because they aren't going to be hanging out at a spot that plays Michael Buble.